OH M FUCKING ODAOGIAERJGEPGKERPOGRKAGOPEAK
THIS IS A STORY FOR THE BOOKS
the FIRST thing he said to me was “you smell really good” and I was so..put off…and uncomfortable…I was like …”wonderstruck by Taylor Swift…” he was like “u like Taylor Swift…” I was like “…yea…” he was like “…I like Taylor Swift…is that weird…” I was like …….RIP……why me lmao
he asked me for my number and I was too freaked to think of a fake so I gave him it and he texted na called me and I changee NGED MY NUMBER TO ESCAPE HIM LMAO OO O
um lmao that sounds like the worst thing ever tbh
I don’t like that one bit
anyway is this high school?? I’m assuming it is
high school boys are so damn extra just all the fuckin time the boys in my high school did some shit like that once it was SO…STUPID….anyway it’s not dumb to get upset over but idk man it’s not worth obsessing over I guess haha you gotta shake it off and get to college where the boys will flock to you
(2) You’re such a golden human being. I feel like I know you though I never tried to reach out to you back then. The things you wrote made me amazingly happy and unbelievably sad. The post where you wrote about what Taylor Swift teaches to little girls spoke to me more than anything I’ve ever read. You are such a strong person with such an honest heart.
Sorry if it’s too long. I just really wanted you to know all this. Thank you, Madeline.”
omfg…….I can’t believe this lmao AND I CAN’T BELIEVE YOU REMEMBER THAT VIDEO!!!!!! THE CLASIC…THE ORIGINAL….I USED TO SHOW THAT VID TO EVERRRYYONEEEE HAHAHA EVERYONE I EVER MET HAS SEEN THAT VIDEO AT ONE POINT.
Omfg thank you for reading my writing, and thanks for liking it?!?!?!?! THANK YOU BUDDY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
the main problem with feminism today and why people think it’s dying is because there USED to be a clear definition of what feminism is and there USED to be a set of (I don’t wanna use the word rules bc it sounds too like..idk..stupid lmao) but a set of beliefs you know associated with it, it was all very SPECIFIC.
these days feminism has become this vague term and people walk around saying shit like “IF YOU BELIEVE MEN AND WOMEN SHOULD BE EQUAL THEN YOU’RE A FEMINIST!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!” period and that’s it. You’re not a feminist just for thinking men and women should be equal, it goes a LOT deeper than that - but shit like this is said constantly. All the time lmao. And I get that it’s a way to bring more people into the movement because who’s HONESTLY going to disagree with a blanket statement like “men and women should be equal.”
but when you start working with blanket statements, you get a lot of…confusion lmao. Feminism now is more disjointed than it’s ever been. We’ve got white feminists over here who think it’s okay to be racist, and we’ve got fuckin TERF’s who think it’s cool to exclude transwomen from feminism, and we’ve got women who think that men don’t deserve a place in feminism.
As for me, my feminism is not exclusionary, and NO feminism should be exclusionary if you’re asking me. That’s just not how it works. Feminism is supposed to be a place where ALL oppressions, whoever they affect and wherever they exist, are spoken about and where we seek to demolish these oppressions; it’s my belief that there is a place for men in feminism.
Things like Take Back The Night and that sort of thing (which are women only events mostly) are another matter for obvious reasons, but in terms of feminism on the broader sense, I just don’t get the whole “men can’t be feminists” thing because I think it perpetuates shit ideas and creates friction between the genders when like…isn’t that what we’ve been trying to get rid of???
Saying we don’t need “more male voices” is true in one sense - we don’t need “more male voices” telling women what to do or more male voices shitting all over feminism - but having male voices supporting women and supporting feminism??? I’m for that tbh
ANYWAY lmao I loved her speech
1.) that’s so crazy to me bc I imagine Bad Blood being really dark but Roar is so peppy? I mean I guess it’s not gonna be like a carbon copy of Roar haha just REMINISCENT but still
2.) I tagged it as http://andthatlittleblackdress.tumblr.com/tagged/concert
3.) THANK U FRIEND
THAT IS AWESOME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! SERIOUSLY THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS I’M GETTIN EMOTIONAL IN THE LIBRARY LMAO, AND GOOD I’M GLAD C O N F I D E N T THAT’S ME I’M CONFIDENT~~
LMAO…………………………….AND THEN PLAYED SBT AT THE SHOW IMMEDIATELY AFTER MINE I S2G SHE IS SO BLESSED SHE WAS 2K MILES AWAY
I’m gonna dig up the exact post bc I know what you’re referring to and when u read the entire thing I think your memory will be jogged as to why I wasn’t defending her haha
I wasn’t giving her an out I was just pointing out that lipstick feminism (and a LOT of tumblr feminism for that matter) is fucking us up the ass and turning women away from the movement
no lmao all things aside he’s a father now
well I think even if she WERE releasing on Monday, if she’s gonna do 4 pre-releases before the album at one a week like…she don’t got a choice lmao it just HAPPENS to be on a day when 1D releases
besides if she is doing pre-releases, the PREVIEW would be Monday and the release would be Tuesday
I never for 8.5 seconds not for a nanosecond defended what she said about feminism
if I defended her for something else at some point BEFORE that (but I don’t think I did lmao u have me confused with someone else bc I liked her before but I never DEFENDED her bc she never did anything wrong up to that point) then idk
lmao nah I think it’s great u posted it u deserve to post it after your hard work!!!!!!!!!!! and if any guys say anything tell them to go suck a fat one
yes haha I heard about it
I read about that one where he handcuffed himself to girls as well
Omfg when I was thinkin of what that fan meant when she said it sounded like a K perry song I instantly went to Dark Horse bc I wanted it to be u know dark lmao but Roar would probably make the most sense????
She was asked if she was a feminist and she said “No because I love men” lmao that’s the drama right then and there that is all you need to know about her brokeass like ever